Jealousy:  mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry,unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.


It's astonishing to me what jealousy can do to an individual. What I find even more astonishing, is how one can be jealous of an individual who is completely themselves, and comfortable with it. A lot of people strive to make people jealous of them. But why would you even want that? People become very vicious when they're jealous. There's a lot of petty jealousy... such as being jealous over someone's clothes or that someone is going on vacation... but when you're jealous over someone who is emotionally stable... someone who know's what they want.... someone who is successful in life... that's a vicious jealousy. People become very emotionally abusive, very degrading. When one craves what another individual has, but has come to terms that they will never have it, their life becomes bout taking everything that's so uniquely special about them, and making it something that's completely worthless. But only if you let them. 


It's hard not to defend yourself when someone has bashed everything good about you. When they have told you that how you are and how you feel is not correct, that it doesn't matter, that your way of thinking or feeling is completely useless, you automatically want to lash out, defend yourself, tell them that everything they're saying is wrong, that you are a good person and the way you are is outstanding. This is where we must stop. We must stop defending ourselves. Because that's what these predators want. They want that argument. They want you to throw out words of defense, but only so they can take those words and degrade you even more. And you ask yourself... "Does this really make them feel better about themselves? Taking away my pride? Taking away my dignity?" and the answer is.. Yes.. It does. Temporarily. The reason people get jealous, is from insecurities about themselves. They envy you. They want to be like you. But there is only one you. And you are so fucking beautiful.


Ignore the jealousy. Don't fall into the chase. Don't fall into the traps that jealous people set up for you. Don't let their words ruin you. 


Just be you. No one else matters.